Modern Dating

I guess I want to just talk to you for a minute. Let’s talk about modern day dating. Now, just the thought of it alone sounds scary to me. I mean, for the people that has got their eyes open you can see all the negativity that surrounds it.

You might have the toxic ex clinging on to them that they left a longtime ago but the ex won’t break it off, even though they live complete separate lives.

Then you’ve got the ones with kids before you and their parenting buddy could be bitter as hell. Calling when they know you two are together on a date or spending quality time. Acting as if there is anything at all to say when they are just bored and lonely. They clearly have nothing better to be doing. You also have to be wary of the ones to be your perfect match until they trap you in their hold and switch up so quick on you and won’t let you leave.

I know you must be thinking ‘Her, girl you are paranoid’ but no! Because it has happened to me. I think I wrote about it previously but the man I was dating appeared to be everything until he became my everything and to him I turned into nothing. Still something but just something so small you could put it in a box.

Anyway, what I’m trying to say is, be sure to study who you’re dating. There are good people out there, serious people. Ones who are looking for the same things as you. Just don’t be blind sided by loneliness and comfort. Take that risk!

Date that person who you never thought you’d ever lay eyes on before or give a chance to. Listen to the other persons heart and you will feel what is true. Focus on their eyes and see the story it has to tell. Let yourself go and be your truest self from the very beginning and that is how you will know.

Her

xo